The Joy of a Good Book Part II

14 May
What I Loved

What I Loved

Just a couple of days ago, I wrote about my absorption in a new book I had received as a gift from a friend, “What I Loved” by Siri Hustvedt. Wouldn’t you know it, I finished it at 4am. Usually, if I am reading a particularly good book, I will put it down at bedtime to get a good night’s sleep. And yet, I didn’t want to go to sleep last night until I had finished the story. There is a sense, and I mentioned it before, when reading a good novel that when the book is finished, the characters will be missed dearly, because they have occupied so much time in our minds. When a gifted writer creates a world and populates it with characters who we come to know and like, they have contributed something to our consciousness.

Although I majored in literature in college and honed my close reading skills there, I admit that that muscle has atrophied over the years.  I don’t follow an insight through to its logical conclusion; I begin to think, “I think that character represents…something…interesting.” There is so much to consider in “What I Loved”: the main characters are artists and academics, and there are strong ideas about visual art, mass hysteria, and abnormal psychology, among other things.  In searching online for interviews with author Siri Hustvedt, I saw that she calls the main preoccupation of the book, “how do we become who we are”? It’s a weighty theme, and the book provides no easy answers.  But it is a real achievement.

I’d also like to mention that, as I stayed up into the wee hours reading, it was not a screen I was holding in my hands; it was a paperback book.  I am old-fashioned in this regard.  I like turning the pages, rather than pushing a button to advance through the story.  You can feel the weight of how much you’ve read, feel the remaining pages as you finish the story.  I look at a screen all day at work.  I don’t need to look at another screen when I am reading a novel in my spare time. Plus, this book was a gift.  It will be a cherished possession because of that.  And I can lend it to friends who also want to read it.  Can you do this with a book on an e-reader? No.

Bridesmaids: Girls Being Funny

13 May
Bridesmaids

Bridesmaids

Well this one’s gonna be brief cause I’m going out soon. I will not, however, be going out to see “Bridesmaids”.  I stopped by the nearest multiplex where it’s showing, and it turns out, the 5:00, 8:00 and 11:00 shows are SOLD OUT.  Damn. I was bummed to not be able to see the movie I’ve been looking forward to for weeks now.  I love a good gross out comedy as much as the next girl, especially those guided by the expert hand of Judd Apatow (though don’t get me started on Seth Rogan. How this ordinary stoner managed to become a movie star is beyond me). But you see, a woman as schlubby and chubby as Seth Rogan could never make it as a comedy star.  You have to start out looking as pretty as Kristen Wiig and Maya Rudolph to get in the door.  Oh, and you have to be as hilarious, too.

A gross-out comedy with a talented female cast that also covers on the very touchy subject of female friendship and competition? And Jon Hamm is in it? I’m there.

Gratuitous Jon Hamm photo

Gratuitous Jon Hamm photo

Here be Malware! Watch What You Download

12 May
Malware

Malware

Funny, tonight I intended to write about a short video I saw on Tosh.0 and the moral outrage it made me feel.  And then, while searching for the real video, my computer came across some malware.  Short version: be careful what you click on.  Even if you have a Mac.

Long version: I always look at the url before I click on a link in search results.  This one was something like blog.tosh.0.com, so I thought the site was legit. I saw a real-looking page for a moment, and then-boom- what appeared to be notifications of malware detected all over my beautiful MacBook.  I guess I got lazy- Macs just don’t get viruses, right?

What made me suspicious is that I was then told that to get rid of the malware, I would have to buy something called Mac Protector, for at least $70 a year. That raised my suspicions, and then began to google Mac Protector.  Sure enough, I found this wonderful site that showed me, step by step, how to remove the stuff from my computer.  It was pretty quick and easy.  Use your common sense, folks- you shouldn’t have to buy special anti-virus software as soon as your computer is “infested” with malware (there was no malware- turns out this is all a ploy to get your credit card digits).  And yes, maybe in the future I’ll write about the shock of watching small children dancing very suggestively at a kid’s birthday party, which I saw on a rerun of Tosh.0. Oh well.

A Singular Woman

11 May
Ann Dunham and Barack Obama

Ann Dunham and Barack Obama

Tonight I attended an author event at Book Passage at the Ferry Building featuring Janny Scott, who spoke about her new biography of the President’s mother, Stanley Ann Dunham. A Singular Woman is an examination of the woman who was frequently reduced to the “white woman from Kansas” on the campaign trail.

Scott applies a journalist’s rigorous research skills and objectivity to the life of a woman who is very difficult to define.  I couldn’t help but think of the value of this biography to future biographers of President Obama.  Scott has spoken with the man who was the house servant in the home of the Soetoro family in Jakarta.When that man dies, his first person knowledge of the President’s childhood will be lost.  In compiling all of these accounts, she provides a useful resource for better understanding the woman who had the most influence on shaping her son’s outlook and character.

I’ll admit that I often found it hard to understand how a woman could separate herself from her young son and choose finishing her PHD over raising her son. But I’m not a mother, and I can’t even begin to fathom what it took for her to choose a stable environment and quality education for her son over being with him.  Sacrificing is what mothers do.  I am eager to read this book and read of what other qualities this singular woman possessed.

The Joy of a Good Book

10 May
Reading

Reading

It had been so long since I had been absorbed by a good book that I forgot what it was like.  No wait- it was early 2009, I was commuting by bus to a new job, and was totally absorbed in Curtis Sittenfeld’s American Wife.  The life story of Laura Bush was fictionalized and made into a sprawling, American story.  I remember thinking it was the ultimate tribute to the woman- she loves literature, and her life has now been made into literature.

Fast forward to Sunday, when I received a belated birthday gift from a dear friend in Ireland that had been shipped to my parents’ house. Along with a pretty funny card, she sent a novel that she claimed was one of her Top Five.  I’ve been reading it since Sunday night, and I’m hooked. It’s just the book I’ve been waiting for- one I will stay up till midnight reading, one I both am eager to finish and yet I know I’ll be sorry to be done with it once its over.

What I Loved by Siri Hustvedt quickly takes you into the lives of its narrator, art history professor Leo Hertzberg, and his longtime friend, artist Bill Wechsler.  In the few pages I’ve already read, a universe has been created, one inhabited by academics, artists, critics and passionate people.  It’s a universe populated with characters that, as I said, I know I’ll miss once I finish.

Sitting Will Kill You

9 May
Desk Job

Desk Job

If you have a desk job, or are a student, or are bed-ridden in any way, congratulations, you’re just inches away from a fatal heart attack. The bright white light is right before you.  Well, this is at least according to a scare the bejesus out of you graphic on Mashable.  I have heard before that sitting all day is bad for overall health, regardless of how active one is, but the infographic really brings it home (if it is to be believed and not just a scare tactic to get people to buy stand up desks).

What can anyone really do if they have a job that requires them to sit in front of a computer all day? There’s nothing like hearing that an aspect of your lifestyle that is hard to change is killing you. We can all eat better and exercise more, but our modern lifestyles make it difficult to get around the seated way of life.  We now have to treat our office jobs like a trans-Atlantic flight- walking around and stretching our legs to avoid deep-vein thrombosis. I have always tried to leave the office at lunchtime even if I bring my lunch, both for the change of scenery and to move my feet a little bit. It looks like this practice might end up saving me from a life of lethargy and heart problems!

To a Modern Mom on Mother’s Day

8 May
Mother and Child

Mother and Child

I just had a lovely Mother’s Day with the family- it was very low-key, just hanging out at the house and eating hamburgers expertly made by my brother. Over the years, as I get older, I appreciate my Mom more and more, and the way she was able to blaze her own trail in a time when having a career  before marrying and having children was common.

She came to the U.S. with her family from Mexico at age 9, knowing no English. In high school she quickly became known as a class clown, impressing the girls with her spot-on Elvis impression. After graduating from high school, she began working as a bank teller.  That would mark the beginning of a career in banking that would span 26 years and see her leave the profession as an executive, wife and mother of two small children.

Before meeting and marrying my Dad at the bank where they both worked, she managed to travel to Mexico, Spain, Chile, Argentina, Uruguay and Brazil with friends, living life to the fullest before settling down in her late 30s. There is much more to her, of course, like her kind, giving nature and sense of humor, but the very facts of her life are pretty remarkable.  For my friends who wonder if their window to have children is gently slamming shut, I remind them that my Mother had me at age 39 and my brother at age 42.  It is entirely possible to have it all.  Happy Mother’s Day, Mom.

The World is Ending! The World is Ending!

7 May
May 21st

May 21st

The casual observer around San Francisco has likely seen billboards and vans advertising the end of the world on May 21st- only two weeks from today.  You would think this would be an occasion for doom and gloom- but the billboards herald the event as “Good News”! Well, thank God we have been warned about the end of days by the fine folks over at Family Radio.  But I really have a lot to cram in the next two weeks if I want to get a lot of living in before I’m immolated on the 21st.

Seriously. The Family Radio people should have expected some backlash. Backlash has come in the form of American Atheists, who have placed a large billboard at the main San Francisco entrance to the Bay Bridge. I applaud them for taking on the ludicrous end of world media blitz, but I cringe at the thought that we are presented with a pretty stark dichotomy- either  you believe that the Bible reveals the date of the apocalypse, or you are an atheist.  Is there room for any middle ground?

The Rapture You Know It's Nonsense

The Rapture You Know It's Nonsense

I think the idea that a magic algorithm is hidden within the Book of Revelation that reveals a specific date when true believers are spirited up to heaven and heathens are killed by a vengeful God is pretty ridiculous. I also think it is ridiculous to hold up this wacko church as representative of what is wrong with organized religion. I don’t believe that there should be no religion, or that believers are stupid. But I also think that talk of the rapture or the apocalypse is a giant waste of time,  and that spending thousands of dollars on billboards when the same funds could be spent helping the needy is blasphemous. I believe in saner, smarter religion for sane, smart people.

So on May 21st, celebrate life, and the fact that God gave you a brain to understand logic and reason.  I actually heard there should be some great end of the world parties that weekend…

Olmecs at the DeYoung Museum

6 May

Smiling Olmecs

What a great night to see historic ruins, Spanish fashion and dance cumbia till your feet hurt. I just saw the Colossal Olmecs exhibit at the DeYoung exhibit, which, to mark its closing weekend, had a  celebration featuring live music and dancing, followed by a DJ playing cumbia.

How nice it was to see a diverse group of people- old white hippies in puffy pants, young Latino families with small kids, 20 somethings of all hues, regular museum-goers and first-time attendees, all taking in the majesty of these colossal, intricate statues and carvings which were reflected in the faces of many in attendance. And yes, afterwards all of these people danced and celebrated together.   It was a great display of joy and unity.

Cinco de Mayo: Party, Dude!

5 May
Cinco de Mayo

Cinco de Mayo

I have mixed feelings about Cinco de Mayo– is this the way the Irish feel on St. Patrick’s Day? For most of my young life I gleefully ate a Mexican dinner on this day, and wished everyone I knew a “Happy Cinco de Mayo”!. And yes, although I am Mexican, what can I say, I thought for a long time it was Mexican Independence Day.

So somewhere along the line, I caught wind of the real Cinco de Mayo story- the outnumbered Mexican forces, armed with nothing but sticks and rocks, beat the mighty French forces.  And then it was some time after learning this inspiring story that some know-it-all told me that in fact the Napoleonic forces were defeated by nothing more than a bad case of the runs.

So why the unease with a day to let out a grito of pride in my Mexican heritage? Maybe it’s the Cinco de Drinko. The white folks in sombreros, fake moustaches, and ponchos.  The caricatures bordering on offensive. I understand that today is an excuse for people to get trashed on tequila shots and margaritas at Chevy’s, and far be it from me to deny people an excuse to party. I just wish this holiday were an occasion to educate people a bit on Mexican history and culture in addition to the Taco Bell debauchery.  And let’s celebrate Mexican heritage every day (which is why I’m wearing my super cool Mexico t-shirt tomorrow).

Happy Cinco, everyone!